The Hard Hearted Harlot hard·heart·ed (härd här t d) adj. Lacking in feeling or compassion; pitiless and cold. Okay, so I'm no longer selling my body and I haven't been for a while. Yet I'm angry because I can't seem to jump over some hurdles in my life. It use to be that when I cared about them I let them love me sexually and then I'd pour my heart out until the day I got numb. Decided I'd never fall in love just have sex but keep myself from falling in love. I've had deep feelings for men but not enough to want to do what I need to do to make sure I can function enough to keep them. I've done hurtful things to men and not even said sorry but was like okay deal with it. Got to appoint where it was just easy to have sex and not catch feelings then to catch feelings. " Your just another notch under my belt" It's just safer you don't get your heart broken when they leave. In my case they always leave. Well I don