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Hoe Turned House Wife


Can't turn a "Hoe" into a "House Wife"! 

Hosea 3:1-3
Then said the Lord unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the Lord toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.

2 So I bought her to me for fifteen pieces of silver, and for an homer of barley, and an half homer of barley:

3 And I said unto her, Thou shalt abide for me many days; thou shalt not play the harlot, and thou shalt not be for another man: so will I also be for thee.



Lets just be real for a minute this saying is horrible.Everyone's heard it at least once in their life. For a long time I believed it was true! Yet anyone can change their life and start living a new life! A woman who they call a hoe can be made over to a wonderful house wife type of woman. Hosea's wife was prostitute and God told him to go love this woman again. She was to be for him and him for her. God can make over any woman. I know I spent the last year trying to learn how to be a good mother and wife because of my old lifestyle i was afraid i would one day ruin my family with my trauma that I once had. For me it started with a prayer from God all I wanted was to be able to have kids oneday. I know I can have kids anyone can have kids. Yet I dont want to be a single mother. Relationships have been nothing but sexual to me. No real depth. Yet that didn't mean i didnt want something real because I do. Why do people think just because someone was once loose or easy or is loose or easy they don't want anything real or deserve love? I don't get it! EVeryone wants to be loved! I promised God id give him my first child for whatever purpose he needed like Hannah just so that he can turn this once "hoe" into a house wife!

A Diamond in the Rough!! 

Joshua 2:1 And Joshua the son of Nun sent out of Shittim two men to spy secretly, saying, Go view the land, even Jericho. And they went, and came into an harlot's house, named Rahab, and lodged there.

A Diamond in the Rough is someone or something whose good qualities are hidden. I am that girl well I was that girl everyone saw me for the sex crazed female who was thirsty. Yet they never really knew me. They didn't know I liked to write, or sing, I played my roll and I played it well. I was smart I read books. Reading books stopped me from doing hard core drugs cuz for a while i lived in a crack house with other prostitutes and I didn't take the drugs because I read the effects of what could happen to you. Yet any diamond in the rough needs a little cleaning up! It's taken me a year to get really healed but every minute of the last year was not wasted. When I say I have been cleaned up not just clean outside but inside as well. The pain i once felt is gone. Rahab she pretty much your harlot hidden behind the walls of Jericho but when someone actually took the time to come in her house for something more than just sex. They found out that there was something worth saving in a city God wanted to destroy. Yes out of a whole CITY THE "HOE" WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO WAS SAVED! They found a diamond in the Rough and her name was Rahab the Harlot. It's crazy because Rahab married Salmon and had a son name Boaz. A Diamond in the Rough who was a "hoe turned to a house 



Turning a "Hoe" Into a "House Wife"

John 4:29
Come, see a man, which told me all things that ever I did: is not this the Christ?

So why is this saying even alive? This saying just leaves people with hard past with an idea that they will never be able to be anything more. Its like trying to tell someone you will never be able to grow or be better than you are now. STAY IN YOUR PLACE.!!! UM What? Lets be real! I got saved and went to college and in 6 months got clean and no one ever knew about my old life except those people I use to know until I started teaching about what God did for me. How he started to clean up my life, change the way I carry myself, taught me how to love myself, taught me that I am worthy to be loved. This woman in John 4 was a "thirsty woman" who had tons of husbands and was "shacking up with someone"Until Jesus met her at the well and told her about her life and changed her life. Just like that this woman life changed and she wanted to tell the world about what Christ turned her life around! A woman who went from going to the well alone because of the type of woman she was to a woman going before everyone who she once knew to let them know Jesus changed 

Hello House Wife Goodbye Hoe

Luke 13:12
And when Jesus saw her, he called her to him, and said unto her, Woman, thou art loosed from thine infirmity.

It feels good to be free a loosed from something that was once hindering you! I traded in my low cut shirts and my booty shorts, crazy drunk party nights out with the girls, one nights stands, tons of boyfriends, and playing mind games with men. For cooking dinners for the family, days in the park playing with my future kids, A husband, and faithfulness and true love! Something real! So you wonder why this is so important to me? Well because I didn't believe anyone could love me after having a past like I did. You know what its like trying to escape your past and people only want to date you because what you use to do. IT'S NASTY! I have to watch my own back because peoples intentions are not well now a days and even back in the day they weren't either. Yet Rahab had someone come around who had the right intentions for her She had a husband and a son! And out of their love down the line eventually came baby Jesus! A Loose woman can have a future I don't care what anyone says so change starts here, say good by to your street corner, your booty calls, your one night stands, say goodbye to prostitution, say goodbye to being a "hoe". Ask God to help you turn around and say hello to house wife! No I am not married yet but a girl who once never had hope to believe love was real that people love I believe all because of God and I know that God would not change my life help me heal, teach me to be stable and a parent, and open my eyes to love if he didn't have something better for me ahead!!! Going to being loose to loosed! Hello Freedom! 



There is hope and life AFTER PROSTITUTION!!! 


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