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How to Change Your Life!

Deciding to Change Your Life

Joshua 2:12 “Now then, please swear to me by the Lord that you will show kindness to my family, because I have shown kindness to you. Give me a sure sign 13 that you will spare the lives of my father and mother, my brothers and sisters, and all who belong to them—and that you will save us from death.”
14 “Our lives for your lives!” the men assured her. “If you don’t tell what we are doing, we will treat you kindly and faithfully when the Lord gives us the land.”

change
make or become different.


If anyones knows what its like to change their life they know that its hard work. I know it doesnt just take oneday it takes many days. You have to work on your mind not just how you look outward. You have to work on doing things differently then what your use to and many people dont like to do that they are stuck in old habit. Many people dont know how much hard work goes into it. Like learning not how to cut yourself. or working on getting sober or working on leaving prostitution or working on no being an abuser or working on changing things that you just dont like about yourself that are not good. We all have problems and things we need to change. Its hard but in the end its worth it.

Focus on Yourself

Yourself: you personally (used to emphasize the person being addressed

Philippians 4:13

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.



When changing your life sometimes you gotta let go of friends, family and anyone that gets in your way. How i changed is i focused on myself. I focused on God! This is about you and where you want to see yourself. No one going to make this change for you. No ones going to fight for you like you fight for yourself. PRess forward. Trust God seek his face and make the changes you must to make sure you get to your destination because no ones going to care if you change or not. You have to do this for you. Focus on yourself!



Living a New Way

2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

Living a new way is hard but at the same time its worth it. For me its easy to fall back and just do things the old way. Easy money is easy money. Yet i've learned to make money a different way. Running an online store, Working side jobs like cleaning a house once off of cl for 4 hours got 200 dollars after i was only going to be paid 60. Doing valet parking for a gig got paid 200 for 5 hours once. As long as i dont live how i used to God supplys my need. I work two jobs but what i dont do is sell my body. Its not even worth it because Im amazing i am valuable and have became awonderful woman. Living a new way





Proud of myself!

Myself: I or me personally (used to emphasize the speaker)

Joshua 2:1 Then Joshua son of Nun secretly sent two spies from Shittim. “Go, look over the land,” he said, “especially Jericho.” So they went and entered the house of a prostitute named Rahab and stayed there.

I'm proud of myself. I say this because sometimes we wait on other people to be proud of us. Yet sometimes when you change others arent going to be proud of you. When you change no understand the fight of what it takes to become a better person. No one understands. From quitting smoking drinking running the streets, selling my body as a prostitute, to getting a job with millionaires saving 20,000. traveling the country, starting my own blog, to going back to college, to surviving to learning to live.To becoming a wife who is faithful hard working and dedicated So i dont care if no one cheers me on if no ones proud ill be proud of me because i know who i was and i know who i have became!!!





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